Do NOT assume that you know everything about
me just because you read my weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make
will be based on the information I have provided you about myself, which maybe
vague, incomplete or shallow. Whatever opinion you form on me as person, or my
life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the
reader. An obvious exception to this would be
if someone were asking for my advice or opinions.
Compliments will always be graciously
accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a
problem with something, but
try to remain constructive
and not be an asshole.
No one is forcing you to give out your opinions, so if you don't have anything
remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.
if you have a
real
life relationship
with me, remember that communication is very
important. View this as online journal, First of all let me know that you read
my site,
especially
if I did not tell you personally.
Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family
members who have been cut out of the my life
should refrain from reading my blog. If the relationship has ended, there is no
reason you should get daily updates on the my life. If you simply can't help
yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt me.
It is important that as a friend, relative,
co-worker or whatever you may be to me, that your presence at my weblog not
impede my ability to express myself. Remember
this is my
outlet. I may not want you to read certain things I might write about
you or others you care about, in order to spare your feelings, avoid drama or
maintain my privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the
site, and never relay any information you gather at my site to others who might
use it against me.
If I
writes about
you
and you don't appreciate it, approach me
about it. Try to remain calm and polite. Explain that you are entitled to your
privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague
nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are
upset because I am writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see
if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with me. If
that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. I will eventually
get bored and move on
Lastly,I
have the right to stop writing at any time for any reason I see fit, and at no
point I need to justify or explain these reasons to you or any of my readers.
It's my weblog,
they can do with it as they please.
if you cannot take it,
Fuck off
My profile
Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Tot of going to gym for a good 3 hour workout but I end up sleeping for 4 hours. I am getting tired and tired.
So unmotivated at all.
I keep my room tidy and neat, had a good dinner while watching the TV.
Then I watch this chinese variety show I Cook For U 名厨上菜 on Channel U. It is about chasing dream, with the support of his three good friends. All three of them were ladies.
Dream(s) or goal(s) are always necessary. First one has to dare to dream. Decide what exactly you want and then chase it. Without a dream life will become aimless.You are never given a wish(dream) without the ability to make it come true. You may have to work hard for it. We do need a support from friends and family so that we can achieve the dreams, we long for.
No one support my dreams. I stop chasing my dreams after trying for sometime, and when I do not achieve my goals, I get disappointed and stop following them further. I hate being a failure. Or maybe I did not try hard enough?
Decide on a dream, maybe something just out of your reach and then go for it, hook, line and sinker. Take risks, get out of your comfort zone and just work, work and work for it till you get it.
I start believing in myself again. For a start, I need to search for a support.
My chic clubmembers of sphere
Collection of 'Must-go' blogs! Check out my beautiful friends daily happenings in their own words
Other alter (ego) journal of
mine
Links that will take you to my other
sites in virtual community and world
Beautiful bloggers I
grooving on Collection of
another `must-go' blogs! The bloggers I have not meet yet ( And will do
one day perhaps) . they have interesting life. Do check out
Blogs of Entertainments
Collection of another `must-go'
blogs! They make the blogging very entertaining and funny in their own personal
touch.
Link I often surf
Go figure! Links to other
sites which mostly had been bookmarked. List will continue to grow
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