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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
At 5.45am, It is raining as usual but that does not stop me to go gym for my usual bodycombat session by Christina at 7am. I hate latecomers. And they fill up the space around me, making the area cramped for me to do my moves. I manage my anger by shouting in the class. I feel so garang in the morning. After that I did another 20 minutes of jogging before going back home.
I reach home at 10am. I need to prepare Mee Siam for my mum later. I want to give her surpise later. I go to Prime Supermarket to buy Koo chye Leaves, Limes, three bottles of Green Teas, a packet of instant 30in-1 coffee, Vitagen, Vegetables for my dailing dinner and yogurts.
At homes, I boil some eggs, chop the koo chye leaves, fry the cubes of beancurd, cut the lime and soak the vermicelli. Like I mentioned earlier, my mum will be do basic condiments of Mee Siam but I prefer the Mee Siam to be a complete dish or better. I won't eat mee siam without egg, sambal or even the lime.
Then my mum reach home and start to fry the vermicelli while I am preparing to make Gado Gado because she is informed that more people will be coming down to visit the house. Then my sister's hubby comes down to collect the Mee Siam because she knows my mum will make something for her visitors.
My mum is not selfish. It is kind of donation to make the visitors feel happy, full and relax in humble manner. What goes around, comes around. My mum teaches me not to be selfish in terms of money or even time and do it sincerely, don't expect anythung in return because in long term, we will get that rewards in surpising manner.
While she goes to meet her friends first, I do extra miles to create more condiments for Gado-Gado. Time's catching up and I have to hurry up because I don't wish to see her friends. At 3pm, I complete everything and make the beautiful presentation for them and then go back to sleep.
When I wake up, I realise that there is little leftovers for me to have for dinner. My mum says that Gado Gado and Mee Siam are delicious. I think it is the presentation make them more appertizing beside my mum's good cooking.
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