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perhaps I do not want to create own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs unless ASKED. I am a good listener as well as good advisor.
I read a lot.
Few of my friends do so because somehow they try to convinced themselves that their way is the best way,their logic is the perfect logic, and those who do not conform to their thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, their direction. Slowly, they use these powerful information to spread to the next person, showing the other's people's weakness or bad behaviour.
Sadly, this kind of attitude on their part denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of God, for God has created each one of us in a unique way.There is God to look after everything. Why are they bothered? Mind their own business and they will have their peace if they stop interfering.
Being a capricorn, I often nurture ill feeling inside my heart for the people who insult or abuse me.However, I already cultivate art of forgiving and forgetting. Believe in the justice of God and the doctrine of Karma. Let Him judge the act of the one who insulted me. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forget, forgive, and march on.
I have someone who delete my contact in his MSN for the small mistakes I did but I realise that this is not kind of friend I want to keep for he is blinded by his own egoism more, instead of recalling the countless of selfless helps I did for him. I am not asking for recognisation or raking up the past. If I did, I am not being a sincere person. Anyway, he cannot accuse me of ingrate because I do not ask him repay my kindness, unlike his other friends.
It does not pay to be kind so I delete his contact in my MSN also, Talk about being forgiving him and FORGET.
I also forgive those who are being bitches and bastard behind my back. Don't be afraid to approach me and say hi.
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