Saturday alone
Today I am quite surpised that I will be staying at home on weekend. There are friends whom I am not that close with asking me out but I am on financial diet today. At least I make my mum pleased to see me whole day.
I start to have headaches especially when I start using my brain to think. I will always think of my future and how I am going to attain happiness. Imagine getting happiness can be very stressful.
Then my mum and I have a hearty conversation. Sh starts to talk about marriage.I start to roll eyes.Her expectation of me to marry a university graduate is high since my sister does not choose graduate as a life partner.
I scold her for being shallow. Does she cares about my feeling if I am to choose any university graduate just to satisfy her expectation and sacrifice my happiness. I think that 's wrong. Love is not made to order.
Talking about marriage or even relationship, I start to think do men love to be complete? Every relationship a guy gets involved in absorbs all his time on his partner, and makes him slightly less fun to hang out with. But at the same time, he is enviable.
But singles like me make an important realization that one don't neccessarily need love to elad a complete and fulfilling life.Maybe people think that to live without a girlfriend is not living - but they forget about themselves.
I suggest that they should assess the sense of self in terms of own tastes and preference.If you feel that there is something missing in your life, don't lunge for a romantice opportunity to fill the void.
Not that I am going to stay single for the rest of my life. I would love to hold my beautiful child on my arms. I am just trying to put love on hold till I am fulfilled.
To those who just experienced breakup,take a few minutes to recreate a better version of yourself such as go over your strengths and weakness and again, include things that may ahve been pushed out of the way during relationship.
Time to reconnect.
While we all need a certain level of love in our lives, we'll probably find it when we least expect it. Who knows I am enjoying jazz live band in one pub, I ll probably notice sweet little princess two seats away, laughing at same parts as me. When I talk to her, she'll be surpised at my self-confidence and originality.
I know that It is great to be me for awhile.
I start to have headaches especially when I start using my brain to think. I will always think of my future and how I am going to attain happiness. Imagine getting happiness can be very stressful.
Then my mum and I have a hearty conversation. Sh starts to talk about marriage.I start to roll eyes.Her expectation of me to marry a university graduate is high since my sister does not choose graduate as a life partner.
I scold her for being shallow. Does she cares about my feeling if I am to choose any university graduate just to satisfy her expectation and sacrifice my happiness. I think that 's wrong. Love is not made to order.
Talking about marriage or even relationship, I start to think do men love to be complete? Every relationship a guy gets involved in absorbs all his time on his partner, and makes him slightly less fun to hang out with. But at the same time, he is enviable.
But singles like me make an important realization that one don't neccessarily need love to elad a complete and fulfilling life.Maybe people think that to live without a girlfriend is not living - but they forget about themselves.
I suggest that they should assess the sense of self in terms of own tastes and preference.If you feel that there is something missing in your life, don't lunge for a romantice opportunity to fill the void.
Not that I am going to stay single for the rest of my life. I would love to hold my beautiful child on my arms. I am just trying to put love on hold till I am fulfilled.
To those who just experienced breakup,take a few minutes to recreate a better version of yourself such as go over your strengths and weakness and again, include things that may ahve been pushed out of the way during relationship.
Time to reconnect.
While we all need a certain level of love in our lives, we'll probably find it when we least expect it. Who knows I am enjoying jazz live band in one pub, I ll probably notice sweet little princess two seats away, laughing at same parts as me. When I talk to her, she'll be surpised at my self-confidence and originality.
I know that It is great to be me for awhile.
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