Tuesday, May 10, 2005

limits

I think I have so many limits, that cause the delay of success. Beside being a dreamer and trying hard to impress people. I hold myself back from doing what I longing to yearn. I make things impossible or spend too much time on unimportant stuff.

1) Self-limiting perspective of myself . Yes, labels like dumb, vain pot, shallow and even socialites wannabe hold me backs. I spend so much time trying to make myself being accepted into the social culture and society and bother what other people say about me.

2) Fear - Anxiety about what may happen to me if I am coming out of my comfort zone like rejection

3) Procrastination - I plan and yet do not build momentum to execute the plans. I take things easy and slow.

4) Lack of focus - I am not sure of my priorities or perhaps I set unimportant goals that cause happiness in long run.

5) Exaggarated excuses - I am making too much excuse with Sucess because I limits the options and choice available to me.

6) Indecisiveness - I making a wrong choices, always

7) Not being silent - I should try to get comfortable being still to ponder, listen and follow my heart.

8) Do not want to surpass my parents - My upbringing and rules restrict my talent to fullest.

9) Limits set by others - Some toxic friends create shallow opinions of me because they thought they know me well enough but the fact the do not know.

10) Lone ranger - I need to connect with others to extend my reach and grow faster with ease instead of doing things in my own hands.

11) lack of confidence - I need to get the source of fears to make myself worths Succesful people also stumble, mess up and fail.

12) Not saying No - I should know my priorities and say no to anything that does not support them.

13)No Saying yes - I tend to ignore my inner voice to take actions to fulfil my dreams

14) Tolerating - I NEED to simplify, handle and get rid of the things, people and activties that drain my energy so I feel better and create space for what I want.

15) Noot being in tegrity with self - I need to tell ab solute truth about who i am , what my needs are , my values and what i want in life to people.

I need actions to move beyond my limits and reach for the sky.

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