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I am meeting old friend to accompany him to see doctor. As a friend, he needs so much support for he is afraid he may contract with terminal illness. Yes, it is sound serious but talking about death issues, it is not a laughing matter. His friend comes and joins us after lunch. I can see fear in his eyes but he tries hard to conceal that. After settling with his private doctor, we end up watching movie Sahara at Suntec City.

I love adventures, horror and sci-fi movies. Sahara reminds me of Indiana Jones movie. Then we have dinner at carrefour cafe.

Today, I really waste time walking around with them but I cannot leave him in lurch as I don't want him to rely on himself alone to get out of the situation; I am who love and care about him may help him break away and give him much emotional support when he is down at the expense of my time. This involves understanding, patience, affection, and encouragement just to make him feel better. But is it worth ?

Letting my friend know that I care and is willing to listen may be the best help I can offer.I won't force the issue, but allow him to confide in me at his own pace. I should keep my mind open too and really listen to what he tells me.I should never blame him for what's happening or underestimate his fear of potential danger. Instead, focus on supporting your friend' s right to make her own choices. I should be petty and make a big fuss.

Perhaps I do need emotional support too but I just cannot find anyone I can trust . I do not like to be laughed at. because I am man. Ego thinking but i follow conservative nature system. Sighs.Maybe, I am just like a candle who brighten other people's life but get myself burned.

You've Got a Friend
Carole King

When you're down and troubled
and you need a helping hand
and nothing, whoa nothing is going right.
Close your eyes and think of me
and soon I will be there
to brighten up even your darkest nights.

You just call out my name,
and you know whereever I am
I'll come running, oh yeah baby
to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer, or fall,
all you have to do is call
and I'll be there, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You've got a friend.

If the sky above you
should turn dark and full of clouds
and that old north wind should begin to blow
Keep your head together and call my name out loud
and soon I will be knocking upon your door.
You just call out my name and you know where ever I am
I'll come running to see you again.
Winter, spring, summer or fall
all you got to do is call
and I'll be there, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Hey, ain't it good to know that you've got a friend?
People can be so cold.
They'll hurt you and desert you.
Well they'll take your soul if you let them.
Oh yeah, but don't you let them.

You just call out my name and you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again.
Oh babe, don't you know that,
Winter spring summer or fall,
Hey now, all you've got to do is call.
Lord, I'll be there, yes I will.
You've got a friend.
You've got a friend.
Ain't it good to know you've got a friend.
Ain't it good to know you've got a friend.
You've got a friend.