Do NOT assume that you know everything about
me just because you read my weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make
will be based on the information I have provided you about myself, which maybe
vague, incomplete or shallow. Whatever opinion you form on me as person, or my
life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the
reader. An obvious exception to this would be
if someone were asking for my advice or opinions.
Compliments will always be graciously
accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a
problem with something, but
try to remain constructive
and not be an asshole.
No one is forcing you to give out your opinions, so if you don't have anything
remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.
if you have a
real
life relationship
with me, remember that communication is very
important. View this as online journal, First of all let me know that you read
my site,
especially
if I did not tell you personally.
Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family
members who have been cut out of the my life
should refrain from reading my blog. If the relationship has ended, there is no
reason you should get daily updates on the my life. If you simply can't help
yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt me.
It is important that as a friend, relative,
co-worker or whatever you may be to me, that your presence at my weblog not
impede my ability to express myself. Remember
this is my
outlet. I may not want you to read certain things I might write about
you or others you care about, in order to spare your feelings, avoid drama or
maintain my privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the
site, and never relay any information you gather at my site to others who might
use it against me.
If I
writes about
you
and you don't appreciate it, approach me
about it. Try to remain calm and polite. Explain that you are entitled to your
privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague
nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are
upset because I am writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see
if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with me. If
that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. I will eventually
get bored and move on
Lastly,I
have the right to stop writing at any time for any reason I see fit, and at no
point I need to justify or explain these reasons to you or any of my readers.
It's my weblog,
they can do with it as they please.
if you cannot take it,
Fuck off
My profile
Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
I went to school after watching Debbie facelift. I promised to meet Kailing aat school before 2.30pm. I hated going to school actually because I am having bad hair day.Luckily, someone had invented a cap. The library 1 is very crowded as usual. I was lucky enough to get the computer from Kailing who is going for a lesson later at 2.30pm. She was telling me about her final year project which she manage to finish the draft. It is quite fast to clear the draft at this time or maybe I am just being slow to submit my draft. After she left, I go to register my subjects which apparently most of them ( the ones I had already planned earlier ) have no vacancy. Hence I need to print out the ideal timetable so that I can ask the request from teh MPE office to put me inside. There is a serious long queue at printing room and pluse there is jam at printers area which these people have no patience to wait for the release of lecture notes but to print on their own. Hence imagine one student prints about 20 pdf files ( Let's not talk about number of pages in each pdf file ) and other 20 students follow suit. It will waste my time waiting since I only print like one page ONLY. I give up and leave the library to canteen B for my super late lunch.
While waiting for bus and reading the Chronicle, I caught a glimpse of a person behind who look very familiar but it is just a short glance until the shuttle bus come. I look at him and he acknowlede me and say that he do not recognize me from the back. It is Ming Hui. Yes, I also cannot recognize him at all. His sense of dressing , and bag and his hair. yes, his wavy blonde hair remind me of some japanese teen hearthrob.I was quite shocked with his sudden new image. I think I shall do the same, making a drastic makeover before the school reopen. But I look fat.And I need to run.
I went to Yio Chu Kang stadium to run because it is always raining at western part of Singapore. I manage to reach there at 5.30pm and start to run round the tracks for 8 times after changing to running attire. I forget to eat my hydroxycut capsules. The sun start to come up and it ray of light shine against my skin. Hence, I decide to stop running at 8th round and proceed to pool for a quick swim. Then, I alight at Ang Mo Kio central to have my dinner at KFC restaurant. This girl at counter is nice enough to give me medium sized Sarsi drink as there is not stock of regular cups. I appreaciate her generosity but those drink add more empty calories to my diet and running just now is just an futile attempt to lose weight. Where is my disciplne? How to achieve my resolution if I keep tempted with such sinful food? After that, I doze off in the bus , all the way to Boon lay.
At home, I am planning to have birthday celebration this week which will be held on either at Gallery hotel or Somebody house. I even finish creating the invitation phamplet for the guests. However, I afraid that it will be a last minute preparation. Anyway, my mum ask me about my result. I know she is disappointed with me and I know I am disappointed with myself. Behind any failure,there are always a good reasons or excuses . I am 28 year old guy who achieve nothing. Such a useless bum! Time to wake up!
My chic clubmembers of sphere
Collection of 'Must-go' blogs! Check out my beautiful friends daily happenings in their own words
Other alter (ego) journal of
mine
Links that will take you to my other
sites in virtual community and world
Beautiful bloggers I
grooving on Collection of
another `must-go' blogs! The bloggers I have not meet yet ( And will do
one day perhaps) . they have interesting life. Do check out
Blogs of Entertainments
Collection of another `must-go'
blogs! They make the blogging very entertaining and funny in their own personal
touch.
Link I often surf
Go figure! Links to other
sites which mostly had been bookmarked. List will continue to grow
Media whoring session
Pictures Galore
Video Galore
Chat with me online
Only available
at
10pm
Singapore Time
Home