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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Today, I slept whole day until my mum woke me up to get prepared to attend my cousin's second wedding ( this time with widow) I did not feel like elaborate the cousin's crazy choice and his decision to leave the first wife but just to give a blessing that the marriage would last. I hated to drive to Hougang because I kept losing my way. My father suggested to use PIE then CTE but I prefer my way to go BKE then SLE. I ended up miss SLE and had to go my father was. I almost made a lot of blunder on the road which might cause hit accident. I just hated it when my parents especially my mum were the passengers. It was like the mistakes were bad and they were rushing me to reach destination. I just hated nagging in the car.
Everyone was asking about the newly-wed couple, which of course they were honeymoon. I kept stealing glance at my cousin's new wife. *smile*. I was just curious why my cousin was so infatuated with her. Luckily I had my other cousins to entertain with. They kept teasing me with my inability to speak properly and shyness.One of them asked me to join the Singapore Idol because I have looks. I was like, huuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhh. I could not act, could not dance, could not sing, could not speak properly and my look was like so average. I was just talentless and they expect me to join the Singapore idol. i would be ended up in the first two episode where all the idiots performs for the Singapore 's laugh.
I sent them back home before I drove to Choa Chu Kang. I went up to Lincoln' private apartment. I was bewildered at his collection of hamster and of course showing his bitch, princess. It was quite a cute small dog, same size as my cat. I loved his apartment and the view outside was beautiful.How I wished to stay in my own apartment.
Anyway, I was not in the mood to go Chang Village to have supper there. My eyes were giving me trouble.So I recommeded Lincoln and Razi to Boon Lay market Nasi Lemak. The queue was like endless when we reached there. Luckily, Lincoln treated me the meal. He said that Nasi Lemak at Adam Road was still the best, which i beg to differ.After that, we go clubbing at alternative club. I was not that eager to go there. I met so many familiar face which I did not wish to meet. I alway felt ugly whenever I went there. I met few friends who apparently did not recongized me at all. I was wearing a trucker cap because I had bad hairday. and regarding having a good-looking friends is always at disadvantage. They were hungry for glamour, attention and good-looking crowd. Hence they would filter off some who they thought might not at use, literally. Life!
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