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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
My sister's wedding was coming soon yet I had not come up with proper guest list for her grand wedding. Worse, my mum was so pissed off when her friends as well as aunties of mine asked me whether I found myself a girlfriend. if not, they were going to introduce someone ( their friends' daughter ) to me.My mum's close friend wanted to recommend this only daughter of her friend to my mum, Then my mum was really can anticipate future like who I was going to stay with : my parents or hers since she is the only child,by right I should stay with her and made my mum feel so lonely.I was like...gosh! I had not graduated yet and not even started my career yet.How was I going to feed their daughter.I told my mum that I was fated to marry late and i had my wish to bring my parents around the world first before I had bigger responsibility.Enjoy while it last
plus, I hoped not to stay in Singapore, no matter how I loved the country. Materialism and selfishness were lingering around. I admitted to have such sense of belonging ( Money is so important in Singapore ) but would I go far to achieve my dream , my ambition or even my needs to be satisfied here? My dream was to run a restaurant or cafe; to serve people with my smiles and hard work. Future was really not quite bright at the end of tunnel.I still behaving like childish guy who think that parents could still provide me financial security.I really disappointed in myself, sometimes for being lousy son. Back to topic about Kuala Lumpur, i just hope to have friend in KL so that I could go there on weekend. I miss KL.Maybe I was not so suppressed there.I can be myself in Kl or even bangkok but not Orchard Rd. I hate materialism.
I LOVE AND MISS KUALA LUMPUR
Betty Who
Betty Boo just doin the poo
and you are oh
and there's nothing you can do
I'm NOT sorry if I upset ya
To get the better of me I wouldn't let ya
Any time of the day i'm gonna get ya
you come running to me yes I bet ya
Ain't going out like a sucker
No need to huff and puffa
Cause Baby I am tougher
Than you think, so you just gotta suffer
I'm NOT sorry if I upset ya
To get the better of me I wouldn't let ya
Any time of the day i'm gonna get ya
you come running to me yes I bet ya
Ain't going out like a sucker
No need to huff and puffa
Cause Baby I am tougher
Than you think, so you just gotta suffer
Betty Who
Betty Boo just doin the poo
and you are oh
and there's nothing you can do
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