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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Since today the lab was being used by the researcher.No point for me going there wasting time doing nothing. So I was going to NUS to meet david's colleague to ask about my project since he was very familar and expertise in my fuel cell plus he is also a researcher doing master degree. I met up with Terence first for lunch at Jurong West near his house. He passed me the blank CD and a connection to my N-gage ( Total cost= $6). When he saw me, he commented that, in sarcastic way, from far, he thought I was my sister ( I lookedlike my sister ) due to my long hair. I was like....whoooo! Hold on! I did not look like Wang Lee Hom?But look like my sister.Get the facts right, Terence. Worse, He say I looked pretty. I took his criticism contructively and put in to one side.More to that, He came to meet me so late.I did not know he live in 40th storey which need 15 minutes to reach to ground level. I was totally pissed off. I came all the way to meet him and yet he took 15 minutes to reach. I hated LATECOMERS.
I just skipped the lunch date and straightaway took 198 bus to NUS.I did not want to be late for the appointment with David later. I had my lunch at Science Canteen. The food cost $2.60 and was not up to my expectation. Heck care! Very angry and hungry.I sat at LT 26 to sort my notes when the orientation group came to the the station ( the bench in front of me) to meet the station master. I was so shocked to see the group consist of more than 10 freshmen.It was much bigger than those in NTU. No wonder NUS was much more exciting and happening University compared to NTU. Why am I in NTU, for wrong reason?
David fetched me at LT 23 and we walked to his temporary lab. I was introduced to his colleague.He was very friendly and helpful.It takes no effort for me to warm up and ask him questions. During the 1hr (or less)session, I learnt quite a lot from him. I was very grateful and appreciated his help. At least I understand his accent of English.I went To YMCA Orchard to do some reading up before i went to Yio Chu Kang stadium for my running session. Today I was proud of myself. I ran around the track for 8 rounds non-stop. Yes, NON-stop.Maybe I need music to stay motivated.
I went back home, start to sms and icq everyone to vote for me, desperately.Somehow, I managed to keep up with old friends.Somehoww I missed them.I never realised that they can be so helpful and supportive, leaving me touched and almost in tears ( I just exagerrating ).Evarn, Ellie, Cheryl, Ming wei, ricky, sinwei and others are few need mentioning. These people who painted parts of my life with colours, positive ones.Life seems getting better.
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