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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Since I did not have lecture notes, I did not attend ant today. There was so much people q-ing at photocopy room to purchase their ordered notes. I skipped the queue and wnet to meet darling medallyn around 2.30pm. She was still queueing for her first year common engineering notes. But she told me that she would meet me soon as she was asking her friend to buy for her. I met her outside McDonalds with her friend. I guided her to the campus bookstore at the NIE. The queue was quite long but Medallyn managed to buy her textbooks. While waiting, I bumped into the girl who did the survey about tea at NUS. I told her that I was from Nus duing the interview and bragging about how much I know NUS ( well, it is true I know NUS as much as NTU ). World can be so small that I managed to see her at bookstore. She asked why I was doing here when I was the NUS undergraduate.I just smiled and told her that I accompanied my friend. It was a really lame answer from me.Lesson learnt was never lie even though thr truth could be so ugly or embarassing at certain situation. The world , especially in singapore which consist of 3 millions population only, can be very small.
After that , I showed Medallyn the Computing Lab so that she can print last minute tutorials or notes as the lab at south spine closed at 12am.She proceed to meet her friend while I headed home for a rest. Kinda of tired, especially my eyes gave me trouble again due to dirty lens but I did not have supply anymore.
In evening, I went for a run at NTU non-stop. It was kinda of small achievement because i can do that without listening to music which was alway been my motivation for long run. Somehow, I tried to think that the the road represent my journey and the the bustop, represent the month. One should know that there are several slopes along the NTU campus. So when I came across the high slopes, i said to myself that i can handle such difficulties with my perseverance and i Should not give up halfway for just minor setback. Life is always up and down, like the slopes in NTU campus
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