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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
I woke up late, as usual. Where is my discipline? I met Terence again for lunch near his house since I really company. I had Chicken Rice cost about $3 and of course Terence treated banana fritters. The banana fritters aka Goreng Pisang at My Kampung Coffee house was the most cheap and tasty in Jurong west. I always come here to buy their delicacies. We walked to the Lakeside MRT station.I took a train to Bedok Station and went to the McDonalds to kill time doing some reading while waiting for my friend but it was crowded.Worse,My hair was getting flatter , making me look like Jim Carey in DUMB and DUMBER movie. Since I could find any cap in Bedok neighbourhood, I took train to Tampines Station. I did manage to get a red trucker cap at Metro that cost $6.50.Good Bargain. So I hang out at McDonalds restaurant for an hour reading my Literary reviews, before heading to Bedok MRT station again. I waited for Abd. for almost 45 minutes,making me more restless. I wondered he remembered the meeting or something cropped up or just lost my handphone.Well, I decided to wait till he reached the station at 5.45pm.
We had dinner at Nearby hawker center. We chatted a while which made me know more about him. Somehow we did have something in common.Maybe good looking people do share same points of view on life.What shocked me that he was married with 5month old child. He was only 22 year old and now serving his national service. Somehow, his resposibility, hard work and determination really impressed me. I was 27 year old and yet I did not think about responsibility as a son to my parents, friend to others. Life is always full of surpise.
We walked to to the place and meet another guy, Rid. We waited for another 30mins before we started our rehearsal. I was so happy that most of the management remember my name. I felt good . There were some celebritied coming down for the reherasal.It ended at 10pm and Abd, Rid and I went back home.Rid and I took train while Abd took a bus home to woodlands. Durin the journey, I got to know this guy again. Why did these people stop impressing me with their success in life and dreams. He looked like Micheal Wong plus he was a national player in SIlat. What impressed me about him was his big dream.
Been a long day today, I reached home at 11pm.Met up with Shiqi and had a chat with him. He look and behaved so different now.Guess age was catching up with us and I did not allow this nature take its toils against me.
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