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me just because you read my weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make
will be based on the information I have provided you about myself, which maybe
vague, incomplete or shallow. Whatever opinion you form on me as person, or my
life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the
reader. An obvious exception to this would be
if someone were asking for my advice or opinions.
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accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a
problem with something, but
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and not be an asshole.
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remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.
if you have a
real
life relationship
with me, remember that communication is very
important. View this as online journal, First of all let me know that you read
my site,
especially
if I did not tell you personally.
Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family
members who have been cut out of the my life
should refrain from reading my blog. If the relationship has ended, there is no
reason you should get daily updates on the my life. If you simply can't help
yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt me.
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impede my ability to express myself. Remember
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maintain my privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the
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use it against me.
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you
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privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague
nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are
upset because I am writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see
if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with me. If
that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. I will eventually
get bored and move on
Lastly,I
have the right to stop writing at any time for any reason I see fit, and at no
point I need to justify or explain these reasons to you or any of my readers.
It's my weblog,
they can do with it as they please.
if you cannot take it,
Fuck off
My profile
Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
I got slammed for being truthful in my blog, Am I supposed to write sweet things about me or gain self-confidence or self-esteem by writing how sweet and innocent I am.Gosh, That is so Not Me. If I am, then I am.Why becoming wannabe. Whether I am jerk, bastard, ass hole, bitch or whatever names, if you did not know me well, you have no right to judge me by the words written. Some people love to write good things about themselves when we know that there is balance in the life.Some good and some bad.That's goes with our characters.
To those wannabes, it is depressing to be someone else ( but it is ok to follow and learn other people's good character ). I can relate that, because i was once a wannabe. Wannabe Aaron Kwok, I change my name to aaron.So amused.Recently i wished to be and look like Jonathan pang.But I realise we both are just two unque people. I could never be like him.Ever.
I woke up damn early to do my fyp which was been pending for 1 week.Spending my whole day in the lab, trying to finish up whatever I left behind.As usual, My day will never be 'beautiful' without being scolded by the researcher students. This time, I left Nafion solution on the table which cause the smell so strong that it can fill the whole lab. I got scolded worse not only by researcher but the professor for my negliengce. Nafion is a poisonous organic compound which will vaporise to the air and kill us. They were such paranoid idiots. My life is much valuable than them. They could not even spoke a simple english. Scary.I just told them that it was my first time handling the solution and I would never do the damn mistake again.Luckily I got hold of my project and understood what I was doing now. At least I got positive results through my own research and RS Qing Lin was so super nice to help me without even me asking him for help. He just took initiative, unlike other research students who gave me those blank faces when we bumped into each other.Plus, he knows my name.Honoured.
I went back home, had a dinner with fruit juice at 8pm. While watching sitcom 'Oh!Dad', I fell asleep with my contact lens on. I woke up at 12am and took off my lenses and went back to sleep. I guessed my detox diet took its effect already.
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