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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
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Nasi Lemak / proud /
Today , I went to Meritus Mandarin to attend the Mr Singapore 2004 event.Actually, I really did not know what reason I attend such pageant.Terence told me that he managed to get two tickets but it may be not confirmed too.I thought of asking Bee Lan but then since Terence told me about unpredictable situation later.I just drop the idea of inviting her.I met Terence at the entrance of Meritus Mandarin , and was told that he could not managed to get through the organizer's handphone.I was panicked. Luckily, he managed to meet sub-organizer and we went in free.I managed to chat with the most friendly, down-to-earth and real person - Justin Lim ( The winner of Last year's Mr Singapore ).It was such a honour to take photo with him.Of course I met Javier but somehow I could not click with him.He was kinda of aloof person.I managed to say hi to people I knew.
I managed to see some celebrities - Remy ( The bowler), Joscelin Yeo, Thomas Ong and some from media industry.I came to support Ming Hui.I was surpised that I sat among his supporters.The event reminded me of experience I had.I did not wish to bitch about the contestants but I just think Ming Hui did very well and the winner should be Mr Ang Mo Kio. Well, Judge's decision - whether right or wrong is finalised.What we can learn here - You must a crowd of thousand people.Congrats Ming Hui! But only regret was I did not manage to take picture with him.
I hated people saying bad things about the participants.I thought that the contestants showed a lot of daring to sign up and take part in the contest.It showed their courage.Those people are not objective and unfair.But of course , everyone is entitled to opinion.Graciously,They managed to take those comments with a pinch of salt.There was no negativity about pageants. They are not fake or himbos.Where are the spirit of the competition and participating?I was dismayed over those people who bitched the contestants in the forum.We all cannot deny the fact that somehow we were likely to face critiscms from all angles but try to be in their shoes before saying anything.WORLD PEACE
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