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me just because you read my weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make
will be based on the information I have provided you about myself, which maybe
vague, incomplete or shallow. Whatever opinion you form on me as person, or my
life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the
reader. An obvious exception to this would be
if someone were asking for my advice or opinions.
Compliments will always be graciously
accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a
problem with something, but
try to remain constructive
and not be an asshole.
No one is forcing you to give out your opinions, so if you don't have anything
remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.
if you have a
real
life relationship
with me, remember that communication is very
important. View this as online journal, First of all let me know that you read
my site,
especially
if I did not tell you personally.
Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family
members who have been cut out of the my life
should refrain from reading my blog. If the relationship has ended, there is no
reason you should get daily updates on the my life. If you simply can't help
yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt me.
It is important that as a friend, relative,
co-worker or whatever you may be to me, that your presence at my weblog not
impede my ability to express myself. Remember
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you or others you care about, in order to spare your feelings, avoid drama or
maintain my privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the
site, and never relay any information you gather at my site to others who might
use it against me.
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writes about
you
and you don't appreciate it, approach me
about it. Try to remain calm and polite. Explain that you are entitled to your
privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague
nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are
upset because I am writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see
if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with me. If
that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. I will eventually
get bored and move on
Lastly,I
have the right to stop writing at any time for any reason I see fit, and at no
point I need to justify or explain these reasons to you or any of my readers.
It's my weblog,
they can do with it as they please.
if you cannot take it,
Fuck off
My profile
Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Opportunity is alway present,it is actually closes by,yet out of reach.It lies outside of my comfort zone.So,it everytime we feel a twinge of disconfort or fear,it alerts us of opportunites to grow.What are snobs,know-it-alls,wise-guys,jerks,loser and dopes?They are words used by other to describe me when I don't behave as they want me to.I may be guilty of doing same thhing too.
My friend's conversation with me regarding my pessimism of life, help me to examine my way of thinking.If I am not happy with where I am, I need to ask myself what I am doing wrong.Then I ahve to come up wiith answers.I mean, the world does not need a changing but me.But Talent alone won't make me a success,neither beingin the right place at right,Unless I am ready.Am I ready to seize every opportunity,no matter how small, or how difficult?Am I willing to admit that winners are people who do things loser are uncomfortable doing?Am I ready to discover that i can do what i am afraid of such as rejection and embarrasment?Am I ready to realize my dreams and also fears?I guess I am ready because I begin to love myself.My first fear to overcome - To jog around the school at 6pm.
Esjay's version of Que Sera Sera When I was just a little boy,
I asked my friends, What will I be?
Will I be handsome? Will I be rich?
Here's what they said to me:
Hey Esjay Esjay,
What ever will be, will be;
The future's not ours to see
Que Sera Sera,
What will be, will be
When I grew up and join college,
I asked my tutor, what lies ahead?
Will I be keep failing day after day?
Here's what my tutor said:
Hey Esjay Esjay,
What ever will be, will be;
The future's not ours to see
Que Sera Sera,
What will be, will be
Now I have life of my own
I ask my self what will I be
Will I be handsome? Will I be rich?
Voices tell me tenderly
Hey Esjay Esjay,
What ever will be, will be;
The future's not ours to see
Que Sera Sera,
What will be, will be
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