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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Suprisingly today was very sunny.I just packed my jogging attire and headed to NUS to meet David.I needed him to give pointers on my FYP.I just loved going to NUS.I used to do my revision there at Eusoff hall overnight.NUS is more happening than NTU.NUS really enrich undergraduate's campus life and allow it to develop its own colourful and interesting character.People there are simply beautiful and well-dressed.I felt that this is the place I belonged to.If one was totally dressed up in NTU,people just blasted that they try to be cool and insist that is not the way NTU undergrad are supposed to and that’s how things always will be - boring, gray and safe. I don’t think so.University life is all about socialisation and you gain a lot from it. Not just the knowledge in books, but knowledge of the society and studying in the University gives us opportunity to attend social programmes. And so, our perspective and knowledge may be broadened. I ain't a role model or a public speaker.I realised that my life is NTU was wasted.Maybe I should visit David more in NUS.
I walked from Science faculty to Arts faculty just to take bus 151.Well,I waited for a few days to see the heavy rain go away but unpredicatably, It was hot and humid today. The weather really took its toll on me.I sweated like hell.Worse, My eyes were giving me trouble again.I went to Ang Mo Kio to buy some Mac software. There were not much choice and the software i intended to buy ( Corel Draw 8 ) cost $18.I only had $10 in my pocket.MISERABLE! I start to go home by MRT, postponed my intention to go for a jog at YCK stadium...My eyes started to give trouble.
At 9pm, I have became a chaffeur of my darling mother. My parents believe that it is both imperative and essential that we should get a car.Having a car in our possession would not simplify things and my life.It would ultimately help themselves enjoy a less stressful lifestyle. Now admittedly, I would not like to become a chauffeur, slaving to my parents' every command, but I would drive them around when necessary.I was obliged to do my mother's bidding.I fetched my uncle and drove to my grandparents' house.My uncle worked in wet market( I think so ).Somehow he managed to keep and choose the fish and other seafood before being dumped. They should not be kept overnight so my uncle took opportunity to select those who were deemed eatable. If we were lucky, my uncle brought us lobster, salmon tiger prawns and other expensive white fish fillet.Tonight he brought tiger prawns and some white fish to be put in the freezer at my grandparents's house.Then we travelled to my other uncle;s house to give his share.because of that, I missed half of the America Idol; Uncut, Untalented.Bleh!
At 11pm, I went to Canteen B with terence to do some revision till 3am.It started to get pouring and it was really poured heavily.I hated to drive in such weather but because I did not wish to worry my mum so we decided to leave early.
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