I love to cook. Part of the pleasure of cooking is a final products themselves.No salt, No sugar, Canola oil, Vegetables, more vegetables .... healthy delicacies.While I was having lunch, my mum struck the conversation regarding finding life partner.My distant uncle is getting engaged, my childhood playmate ( whoever?) got engaged recently.Bleah!Worse still, My auntie insultied him saying how could there possible girl who wanted him with that kind of appearance.He is skinny, not good looking, kinda of weird package but what the hell, he earns about $4K every month.I was told that they liked with each other instatanouesly during first meeting session.I was amused.
Or Just as love is a many-splendoured thing, it changes its meaning, mere lofty emotions, but how practical are they? Are they rock-solid enough to hold the edifice of a relationship or marriage on its shoulders? In a changing world of changing values, love no more seems to be the mere prerequisite for marriage.Financial security and status, materialistic ambitions and fancy lifestyles are values as important as any, maybe to her.I had no comments.
I may be at the age where questions of marriage tends to dominate family visits during any speacial festivals.But societal presure aside,there are more optimistic view on being single to this day and age than any those old people realise.Being single gives us the opportunity to achieve things which may not have been possible in situations where one's attention,time,energy and financial resources may haved toe shared with other half.
I'm better able to concentrate and focus on trying to achieve something beyond love.It is not a shameful statement to admit the fact that i am still single.Of course, I could not deny the obvious setbacks of singlehood like unfulfilled need for companionship and resulting loneliness.Anyway I told my mum that I am not going to seek out or rush into a relationship because of the factors.I still had dreams yet to accomplish.
I had friends seems to be together and then breaking up soon after, with lots of crying and screaming thrown in.I 'm more than happy to go home alone for some peace and quiet.Feeling jaded and cynical?Perhaps?I am an old fashioned kinda guyl. I believe that relationships or marriages are formed on the basis of compatibility. You are with someone because you enjoy that person and genuinely like them.I am easily bored with people sometimes.Wait till I earned a million.
I met Dawn, and Harvin..She introduced me to her beautiful friend.It was such a sweet surpise to meet her and did some catching up before i start my intensive training on my shoulder.I met Ming Wei , my spotter.He was with his gym buddy.I thought he did leg training.Well He better does it beacuse he had such bigger upper frame, which of course very nice but we also need to train lower body like legs to look balanced.
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