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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
Now I ended my daily horoscope because nothing come real from the readings itself during my daily events. I missed all my lectures again but I still had to go school to meet Hung Yong to pass me his notes....Ended up I got the notes from the Library instead.I felt so bad about whole issue.He is so perfect in character-wise.I was kinda of retarded whenever I asked for his help.....No one I knew can be so selfless and generous..... talking about character-building,esjay.....I met Juliana to pass me Hung Yong's M401 Notes...catch up a little bit with her......How I missed attending lecture with her and Zhong Ren...time flies...
I supposed to meet Bunawar and David for dinner at Banquet FoodCourts at JurongPoint.I came early so I managed to get the seat whose table was not cleared of those plates/drinks.I waited for them awhile untill I decide to make a calls.....It was crowded and people kept asking if the seats were available....and worse I overheard one lady say that maybe they just sit down at the place I was sitting, in case I will just leave....I turned around and gave her that 'Fuck You, Bitch' attitude....I decided to call them again...I really hate waiting even though these are things that our outside of our control and in many cases have little or no influence on when they occur.I had no patience at all.....Sometimes, waiting is not prudent, like staying in a burning building, when we can easily reach the exit. In cases, like this, waiting is not being patient, it is being foolish...I don't really mind waiting with some company...but not alone when people looked at you with 'Hey-idiot-you-are-hogging-the-seat-so-fuck-off' stare.
Signs that I can get impatient include cursing, excessively bringing the wait up in conversations to others, treating others abruptly or rudely, acting violently towards the things around me, and putting down the thing or person for whom I am waiting...Don't keep me waiting.......
I called again but according to bunawar , david was already here...so I called him.He told me that he got the seat too....I insisted on him coming over to choose my seat.Mine is spacious, good seating area and big.I Had Ban Mian while they both had Tom yam Mee..I really did not know why they had to order same food almost everytime I had meal with them...talking about playing safe...bleah
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