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Preferably called as Esjay /
Born on 2nd of January 1977 in Singapore
/ Stands at
5'11/180cm / weighs 70kg
/
NTU Graduate / perfectionist / attention seeker / lost interest easily /
failure in life / legally dumb /
adventurer / fun seeker / vain / Adore
punk / quiet / love sports / tan / beach volley ball
/ anything related
to beach / sicko / hate cockroach / traveler /
love
Nasi Lemak / proud /
I went to Marsiling Road to attend my ex hostelmate from NTU's solemnization of marriage. Using navigator to find his place, it always give me the same path to johor bahru immgigration center, instead of using expressway. I start to wonder it was a fastest way to marsiling?
Once I reached, I was quite shy about entering inside because there were so many unknown faces, perhaps his relatives.
I just ended up driving back home.
Then My family and I went to Sheng Shiong supermart to buy some grocery for next month. I spent about $125++ on grocery. It is time for me to contribute to household income. Then we bought some food at foodcourt to bring home.
Today I went for morning jog at 5 am, with intention to lose weight because I was quite bothered by friends who said that I ballooned out already.
At 3pm, I drove to Dephi Orchard to pay the installment, then headed to Bugis Junction to meet herwan. I hate going to bugis because I need to pass through many ERP system along the way.
Waste of money.
I went to gym for 30 minutes run at Bugi California Gym.
At this time, so many people in the gym working out. I met Herwan at Mcdonald's and have a bite nearby hawker stall. I had my chicken rice and chillled out there. I was so loving the place so much because there were so many beautiful people around. I was so blended well there.
We walked to Arab street to check out the place and even explored the Haji Lane and the bussorah street. Soemthing eye opening for me because the place was quite extraordinary for me.
I felt like a tourist.
Then we walked to Shaw house carpark and drove to West Coast McDonalds for chilling out. Another place where beautiful people hang out.
Around 9.30pm.I sent Herwan to Bukit merah mrt station. I was drained with new lifestyle.
Today I went to Bugis to meet Eddie for movie. But before I already booked the ticket online so that we had ample time for shopping. We went to Topshop and Bugis Village for window-shopping. I managed to buy the replica of crumpler bag, zinc for gym work out.
We had nice nasi lemak and other food at this place, I forgot the name of the stall.
We continue window-shopping until it was time to watch the movie: Disturbia. It was a thriller movie about juvenile being grounded at home by police, hense to kill boredom, he and his best friend explore the neighbourhood through binoculars and video camera. One of the neighbour was suspected of serial killer.
It was not worth watching movie because such movies can be shown on tv.
Then we walked to Raffles City to window-shopw before going back home.
My friday burnt because I needed to attend some seminar held at work. It was about action research.Apparently, I imagined myself that I attend the lecture back in NTU. Worse still, I sat in front of the speaker.
I overused my voice at work; the sore throat was not healing, worse going from bad to worse. I continued to abuse my voice for the sake of working.
After that, I went to Jurong Point to pay some bills and check in the cheque. I hate going to Jurong Point because this is the place where so many kids I know will hang out.
Being caught in attire I usually don in fashionable way, was considered as inappropriate for me. But to be considered as who I am, I should be comfortable in whatever I wear, as long as my conduct in public was good.
I went to old Jurong West to look for tailor measuring tape.
I spent rest of the day, resting and drink warm water to soothe my throat.
Today I went to meet Richard at Jurong Point for dinner, because zhen xing was having a last minute meeting at his work. I met Richard at Kopi Tiam for dinner but I just had dessert only as my mum cook a delicious dish at home.
As usual, I sent the pain-in-his-ass sms to zhen xing that if he cancel the meeting which he was the one who was so eager to meet up, he can just forget about meeting us in near future. I was really busy today but I sacrificed the time off to meet them.
He fetched us at the taxi stand at 8.45pm. We went to KFC at Taman Jurong for supper but then we were quite fickled minded to decide the place to eat. Mcdonald, KFC or Pizza Hut. End up , we decided on KFC and order the $3 value meal.
Bad service means you can get freebies. We traded-in our mashed potatoes for cheese fries. Because of different server and delay of delivery, we told the girl that we did not receive the mashed potatoes.
Here came the free mashed potato.
Then we decided to hang out awhile at Richard's area for chit chat session, mostly about going overseas on National Day's long weekend and of course much talked about - our future and finance.
We could see how misreable we are without money.
That idiot told me that I looked lifeless, haggard and fat.
Something URGENT needed to be done. Anyone can recommended a good cosmetic surgeon?
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